Monday, April 5, 2010

Problems between relationships

The most famous one.. "too much argument"
Many different opinions.. thus.. lead to minor debate, then, it worsen.. and argument starts.


Mine is different. 
It's always me giving my opinions and complaints.
You will just listen in silence.
You never speak out your disapproval.
Reason: Avoid arguments. Even when we quarrel, or even you speak it out, the problem wont be settled.


And the only thing you do when you're not in a good mood, or when you dislike something is, you just keep silent.
Just answer "Em, oh, ok, yes".




As for my friends who are studying in universities, their main cause of arguments is "lack of time".


No time for each other.
No communication.
Buy bout other activities and events.


To me, just honestly speaks out your opinion, maybe the problem wont exist.
If you talk properly, I think the other one wont shout at you.
Speak out the problem is better than hiding them in your heart.
Cos when problems accumulate in your heart, it'll burst out one day.



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