Why adults are so sensitive?

I know Kitty's sis will be reading this so I apologise first. 
To protect your privacy, I dont use your name. *Contents is something or someone related to you*.


Today, I woke up at 7am.. Because my dad's new car is arriving today and the agent call us to go to the car dealer's shop at 9am and pass us the car at Bidor (35mins drive from Kampar).
Rushed to Bidor after breakfast and then me and my family went to Ipoh.
Super tired, straight take a nap after bath.


Kitty's sis, KeyJe's mum phoned me. 
I was asleep, and maybe my voice is loud.
She complaint to my mum "Your daughter work as what? Why so vain? Talk rudely to me?"
Oh please.. I'm sleeping. And I swear that I'm not talking rudely. I never shout or scold.


I'm very tired of this.
I respect you very much as you helped my family a lot.
I remembered everything you've help me.


Please dont be so sensitive.
I will be scolded badly and my mum will grumble me for a few good days.


Everytime also like that.
Everytime say I'm treating you rudely.
Please. I am not.

When a Fren turns to a Salesgirl

Few weeks ago, an auntie came find my mum.

She is my mum's long time no see friend, used to be her best friend when she was young.

Recently, she start selling some dunno what shirt, those tight tight one. Wear for healthiness.. and help to straighten up your backbone, can reshape your body line.. bla bla bla..

The price is ~ RM4k plus plus... =_="

And a pair of socks, which can heal heel pain, leg pain, ankle and knee pain..

Price is RM 500 plus plus..

My mum says, she rather spend RM4k for a diamond ring that can wear on her hand and show off to the others than buy the stupid shirt and wear it inside where nobody can see. =_=

And then, this auntie start phoning my mum at least 3 time a day looking for her.

I keep think of reasons to reject her and give her excuses telling her my mum is not free..

And at last, my mum id fed up, she off her phone and use another number.

See.. how annoying. Just to avoid you, we have to change another number.

After changing the number for a few days, she stop finding my mum.

Who knows, today, she came to my house.

Luckily me and my mum went out for lunch.

But it's not lucky enough.. because she waits us untill we came home. =_= Duh.

So irritating,

My mum doesnt want to spoil their friendship so she dont reject her straightly.

But this auntie really.. HAiz...

My mum just chat with her a while and simply use some reason to reject her.

Hope that she wont come again.

Okay frens, if you wanna sell something to me, make sure I'm rich enough for it.

If I have no extra money for your products, then wait till I have.

Dont hard sell and make me mad.

Realistic Vs. Materialistic

Realistic: concern for fact or reality and rejection of the impractical and visionary
Materialistic: Materialistic describes a person who is markedly more concerned with material things (such as money and possessions) rather than spiritual, intellectual, or cultural values; an adherent of materialism.


This two phenomena is very common among human nowadays.
Even if now you dont practices this, it doesnt mean that you wont in the future.


Being realistic is a good thing.
It lets you understand about your current situation and face the reality, not indulging in the stupid and hopeless dreams, hoping for something impossible.


As for materialistic, it's not bad but it depends on how you practices it.
Being materialistic can make someone improves his living status and life quality.
One will start to yearns for luxuries and better things.




Few years ago, when I was still engrossed in those impossibly sweet stories, I think that money is just for clothes and food. 
My future life partner need not to be rich.
But now, I know.
Money makes life better. At least, he must have a stable income that can support my expenses.


The basic for a relationship is money.
If two people wanna get wed, stable financial support is vital.
If you have stable income, first of all, both of you need not to worry about your basic living expenses.
Money is the reason for arguments and fighting between most couples.
"Not enough money for electric bills, not enough money for petrol"


Talking about money will 伤感情. But to say things out clearly and honestly can prevent future arguments.




So, the one reading this, please be aware.
No money, no marry.




I am realistic. *~\(≧▽≦)/~

Problems between relationships

The most famous one.. "too much argument"
Many different opinions.. thus.. lead to minor debate, then, it worsen.. and argument starts.


Mine is different. 
It's always me giving my opinions and complaints.
You will just listen in silence.
You never speak out your disapproval.
Reason: Avoid arguments. Even when we quarrel, or even you speak it out, the problem wont be settled.


And the only thing you do when you're not in a good mood, or when you dislike something is, you just keep silent.
Just answer "Em, oh, ok, yes".




As for my friends who are studying in universities, their main cause of arguments is "lack of time".


No time for each other.
No communication.
Buy bout other activities and events.


To me, just honestly speaks out your opinion, maybe the problem wont exist.
If you talk properly, I think the other one wont shout at you.
Speak out the problem is better than hiding them in your heart.
Cos when problems accumulate in your heart, it'll burst out one day.

最佳损友 陈奕迅

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